2022.01.18 07:27 GraveTidingz My Dad (M70) stole some expensive wine from my husband (M30), but won't admit to it and is blaming my brother.
A few years ago my husband Andrew and I went on a wine tour and bought about a dozen bottles of wine. They were all high quality, but one was a very special limited batch bottle from a boutique winery that cost about $200 and we planned to age it for a few years before drinking it. (We bought it in anticipation of buying a house, so it was going to be our celebration wine).
My Dad has a cellar which he uses to store wine, and 3 years ago he offered to store ours' there, which was kind of him so we gratefully accepted.
Since then we had to move to another state for work and haven't been able to visit due to COVID. While we've been away we bought some land and had a house built, which is almost finished. We've come back to visit my Dad this week and planned to pick up our wine while we're here... But it's gone. The box is still there and had a single bottle left in it, everything else is gone, special bottle included
Before I even got the chance to ask my Dad about it, he started telling me that he hasn't seen our wine in a while (it was packed away right at the back of the cellar, not in a visible spot, not sure why my Dad would be looking at it at all) and he thinks my brother (28, lives with my Dad) drank it. My brother doesn't drink wine at all, so that would be weird. Then my Dad got weirdly flustered about it, made a big fuss about looking all through the cellar for it, before saying "Oh I'll give him some of my other wine! I'll give him some nice bottles!" So I think it's pretty clear my Dad drank it and is deflecting. My Dad also has some memory problems from old age, and generally is an impulsive and selfish person. (I asked my brother and he said he had no idea what wine I was talking about, and that he doesn't drink wine. My brother is usually honest with me and owns up to his mistakes, whereas my Dad always blames someone else for everything).
I really clearly told my Dad "If you took it, you need to apologize to Andrew and make amends. The worst thing you can do now is to lie and double down. This isn't just about the wine, it's about trust." But my Dad just went on about how he would never have drunk it and he's never even drank that type of wine in his life (not sure how he'd know exactly what wine has had, since he's 70 and drinks wine every night).
Then when he saw Andrew an hour later Dad didn't even speak to him or look at him.
Andrew is pissed off. He's upset about the wine, and he's angry that my Dad is lying to him.
(Just for background we spend almost all of our time cleaning, cooking and otherwise helping my Dad when we visit. We've spent the last 3 days deep cleaning his house, getting handymen in, carpets steam cleaned, and we filled a 4 cubic metre skip with rubbish from his house. So this is 100% the last straw for Andrew and myself).
Has anyone else dealt with a parent like this? I want him to just admit it and apologize, but I don't think he will.
TL;dr My husband and I spend a lot of time helping my Dad out, and he has repaid us by stealing hundreds of dollars worth of wine, and lying about it. Husband wants Dad to apply, but Dad won't even talk about it.
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2022.01.18 07:27 BaBaYaGa0905 Adulting Learning Curve
Hey y’all, hopefully this won’t come across as venting, but just looking for some encouraging words or even some guidance in the right direction. Anything helps! Peace and Love!
My journey in life has been a very challenging yet rewarding journey. I am 21 years old right now and just reflecting over what I have overcame and what I had to deal with makes me very proud of how strong I am individually. I was abused physically, sexually, mentally, and emotionally by my biological mother until I was 9 years old. After being saved and taken in by a church friend, I slowly was enlightened how traumatic the things I went through by news stories of abuse, rape, and therapy. I always had thought it was my fault at first, but then it all turned into anger. Long story short, I became depressed and suicidal but got help when I was 13 and went through two years of social rehabilitation, and it worked! I realize my past made me a strong individual person who has a very unique perspective and empathetic view on life and how fragile emotional balance is to our everyday lives. I survived the horrendous foster care system where children and minors are treated as pieces of paper and a foster home that locked me out and neglected me for my whole high school education. I even survived the emotional damage of that family friend (who I had considered to be my adoptive mother because I give her the credit of teaching me my manners and being the first person in my life to show how much I am worth and the potential I have in life, trusted the most with all my problems and past trauma, and looked up to because of her story) betray me and admit that they wished they never saved me from my mother. Life had dealt me a shitty hand, but I’m trying to make the most of it.
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2022.01.18 07:27 ConanHighwoods2 1 more day before we await out fates.
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I search in Glassdoor for jobs since that's what was recommended based on the multiple blogs I've read. It's really difficult to search for jobs abroad and I don't really know where to look.
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